Mother And Sons Relationships
I would like to dedicate this post to all the special mothers in the world, there is no stronger and more dedicated love then the love of a mother. In my experience with my relationship with my mother, I truly feel from the bottom of my heart there is a much different love and bond between a mother and her sons. Now do not get me wrong, I am not saying a mother loves her sons more then she would love her daughters. In my opinion the love between a mother and her sons are just a different type of love then she has with her daughters, most mothers and daughters I feel have a very close relationship but it is just different then the relationship she has with her sons. Stop and think about it for just one minute, more often then not is not the daughter daddy’s little girl and the son’s mothers pride and joy. I just really feel there is some special bond between a father and his daughters and a mother and her sons, so be proud all you mothers for you are a very special person and never forget it.
What Makes A Mother Special
Mothers are extra special because they will do almost anything within their power for their family, a mother without a doubt will give up her life to save any of her children. Did you ever wonder how someone with so much love and tender loving care could become so strong to defend her children against anything or anyone, a mother has no fear when it comes to protecting her children. Mothers just seem to understand us better then anyone else, what gives them this extra sense and power? Our moms just seems to always or most of the time know exactly what we are feeling, even scarier they seem to always know what we are thinking. I often really think we are a part of our moms and that is how she knows us so well, I think my mom knows me better then I know myself. Moms are great at giving the perfect advice no matter what we are going through, they just seem to always know the right thing to say and do. Only a mother never a father will ever make us eat all our veggies, many times our fathers need our mothers to force them as well to eat all their veggies.
Sacrifices Of A Mother
Besides our mothers being fierce when it comes to protecting us from anything or anyone which could be dangerous, she will give up anything just for her children to be healthy and happy. Sadly how many times does a mother live a life of abuse from an abusive husband, just to protect her children from being abused by their abusive father. All a mother expects from her life is to give to her children, what makes her the happiest is seeing her children being healthy and happy. What other person do you know who will give up so much, it is our mothers who stayed up taking care of us while we were ill as children. Sacrificing not only her sleep, but taking the risk of catching whatever was making us sick. My mother many times did without many things just for us kids, it seems a mother does not require material things to be content and happy. A mom thrives on giving to others, only a mom seems to know when we need something we ourselves do not even know we need. Only a mother will find the strength no matter how fatigued or sick she might be to prepare our meals and all the other things we might need, if it was not for our mother’s sacrifices we would more likely not be here today. Most of the time in a family its is the mother who has to be strong and sacrifice through our terrible teenage years, only a mother could take our teenage roller coaster moods and some of the terrible things we have said to her and still she loves us with all her heart when no one else ever would. There is and never will be anyone who could compare to the sacrifices our mothers have made for us, thank God he made mothers to be the way they are to love us no matter how we treat them some days.
Mothers are like the old Timex watches, they seriously do take a licking and keep on ticking. It is a very emotional time for me seeing my parents aging with health problems today. We can assist our parents financially more often then with their health problems, it is very true money can not buy our health. My mother is suffering very much these days with autoimmune disease, even as much pain as my mother is living each and everyday she complains very little and still finds a way to give to her children in some way. Lately I have been realizing the special lady who has been such a major part of my life will one day be gone, anyone who has lost their parent(s) or has aging parents such as me understands how emotionally it is to see our parents slowly fading away. Before I end my article with special mother day gifts, I urge you to think of your parents especially your mom more then just on Mother’s Day.
Special Mother’s Day Gifts
This week you will be tempted with all kinds of fancy gifts for Mother’s Day, if you are in the position to purchase some of these fancy gifts for good ol mom that really is great. You do know, more likely mom would be just as happy with something simple and thoughtful from your heart then the fanciest gift. Mothers are very strange creatures without a doubt, crazy as it sounds they would much prefer having your company over any gift you could ever send them. Over the year I have not been waiting for Mother’s Day to think and show I am thinking of my mom, my mom gets so much joy over simple little thoughtful gestures and fun mail all throughout the year then the fanciest gifts money can buy on Mothers Day and Christmas Day. You can never buy a mother’s love, that is one thing in this world is not for sale. If you prefer giving one of the gifts which will be available this week that is fine, but you know what would make mom the happiest might just be to spend the day with YOU.
Thank you for reading my post today, this is a dedication to my mother and all other mothers who have sacrificed so much all their lives for their children. This is not my normal type of article, but relationships are a very big part of our lives and being healthy and happy many of us owes this to our mothers. I strongly believe without our mother’s dedication and sacrifices, many of us would not be the person we are today.
Happy Mothers Day